My Very Terrible Wedding Photos | Personal

Today is our 5-year wedding anniversary. It feels like forever, but really our marriage is only a kindergartener.

We were definitely on a tight budget when planning our wedding. I was still in school at the time, and our apartment furniture consisted of a bookshelf and two camping chairs.

When it came to hiring a wedding photographer, I decided to ask a fellow student photographer who I’d worked with in class. I knew he was talented, and he had a job working with a professional photographer. He also had some great studio portraits online, and I was pretty impressed with them at the time.

Our wedding was a perfectly happy day; we were surrounded by friends & family, and the weather was absolutely beautiful. I wasn’t paying much attention to the photographer, though I do remember being slightly concerned when he showed up and said this was his first wedding he’d photographed – ever – and then proceeded to fumble around with his camera like he’d never used it before (I later found out it was borrowed).

I wasn’t worried – I was getting married, it was a beautiful day, how could the photos not be fantastic?

Well, they weren’t fantastic because he had no idea what he was doing. That much became apparent when I received the unedited photos a week later. That’s right; evidently he didn’t think to edit them.

Bad-wedding-photosIn all fairness, he made all the typical mistakes any new photographer makes. He photographed most the day with a wide-angled lens, and the distortions made us look like we walked straight out of a carnival mirror. He wasn’t able to control his shutter speed, causing motion blur. He wasn’t standing in the right place at the right time, causing him to miss shots or create very strange shots.

bad-wedding-photosbad-wedding-photosIt became painfully apparent that the photos online were in no way, shape, or form taken by him. He may have stood behind the camera and clicked the shutter, but he did not set up the lighting or adjust the camera’s settings.

It’s disappointing, because there are no do-overs for wedding photos. What you get is what you get. Forever. I do have a few photos around the house from the wedding that were okay, but I’ll never have a wedding album. Out of 400 images, about 4 were worth printing. Here are three of the four:

bad-wedding-photosIn retrospect, I should have researched photographers and hired a professional. This guy “had a nice camera and took pretty good pictures” most of the time; but he wasn’t knowledgeable enough.

He didn’t know what makes weddings special, how to direct a wedding party, or what kind of wedding images are successful. He didn’t know that I didn’t care to have 8 candids of the best man’s now ex-girlfriend, or 30 photos of kids playing with balloons. Unfortunately, these were things I didn’t even notice at the time. If you’d asked me the day of the wedding, I’d have said he did a great job. A week later, I was shocked on just how badly things were really going on behind the camera.

bad-wedding-photosHe didn’t know that all I wanted, and still want, is beautiful photos of my husband & me on our wedding day.

The best photo of us sits on my dresser, and I look at it every day. It’s small, dark, and uninspired. My memories of the day are far more beautiful that that photo. Even though we had a bad experience, those few photos still make me happy, because we are happy. And that’s all that really counts. I just wish I had some better photos to prove it.

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2 Comments Add yours

  1. Lana says:

    Ashley, I’m so sorry you also had to suffer from bad wedding photos. Because we were also on a tight budget, I hired a professional who was recommended, but who was also at the “cheaper” end of the spectrum. I could relate to your comment that only 4 came out worth printing–we have about the same number. Though she claimed to be a professional, her photo quality, the editing nightmares (I received one wedding party photo back as “edited” with a plastic water bottle in the frame–seriously?!), and going back on her word (as in, what was included in the package we bought), showed otherwise. While I was angry about it for a while, now it just makes me sad!

    I’m thankful, like you, that we also had perfect weather and wonderful memories of our interactions with our family and friends who attended. I remember nothing about the ceremony, but I guess that’s ok. Oh, to do it over…

    Happy Anniversary today! I will never forget the Fall of 3 Weddings. What an exciting time in our extended family (especially for the Judds)!

    1. ashleyanne7 says:

      Hi Lana! Thanks for sharing your experience. That’s so unfortunate! It’s such a disappointment to receive bad wedding photos. :( I remember your wedding day as beautiful; it’s sad your photos don’t reflect that.

      And a water bottle? Seriously? Of all the easy things to take out (or just make sure it’s not in the photo in the first place)!

      Happy anniversary to you too! The Fall of 3 Wedding was crazy/awesome. :)

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